SACRED LOVE

Let Go To Let Love In

Helping Muslim women open their hearts & soften into divine trust so they can receive more in joy and ease in their marriage, family, and life.

You’ve carried it all for so long… but what if letting go of what you have been holding for so long gave you more?

More love flowing into your marriage.

More of Allah’s mercy in your heart.

More joy and ease in the life you’re building  for yourself, your husband, & your children.

This is your invitation to stop doing more to feel worthy  and start opening to receive more from the One who created you.

You keep it all together until you’re alone. You feel tired deep in your body, but even deeper in your soul..

Then the lists, the pressure, and the loneliness creep in; you know you need to slow down, let go and don't know where to start?  

You do most of the housework because it’s “quicker” than asking twice.

You long for deep closeness in your marriage, love that feels safe, partnership that feels true, and a companionship that mirrors the Divine.

Your heart longs for intimacy, but you’ve forgotten how to truly receive it.

You pray, but your mind still races through the next task.

You crave the safety of being loved unconditionally by the One who created you. The One who never leaves you

You rest for five minutes… and the guilt kicks in. 

You feel unseen, unappreciated, and secretly resentful and also scared to let go.

You love your children deeply, and motherhood sometimes feels like a burden and is draining you out.

You’ve learned to rely on yourself because depending on others has disappointed you before. Yet, your heart aches for the tenderness, support, and mercy you read about in Allah’s names.

Imagine this…

You wake up with Alhamdulillah not just on your lips, but alive in your body. You pray Fajr and feel your heart soften in sujood. Instead of rushing, you choose one or two priorities for the day, letting go of perfectionism. You feel at ease asking for support without guilt or fear of rejection. You allow yourself to rest without shame, trusting that receiving is also an act of worship. You welcome your loved ones with presence — no rush, no mental lists — creating space for closeness, warmth, and lighthearted connection.

In this life…

  • Love flows toward you because you’ve created space for it.

  • Your marriage feels like a sacred partnership, where appreciation and intimacy blossom naturally.

  • If you are a mother, your children witness a woman who is regulated, joyful, and present

  • If you are preparing for marriage, you enter it with softness, confidence, and the skills to build lasting harmony.

  • You move through your day anchored in the knowing that Allah is holding you, so you don’t have to hold it all.

Letting go doesn’t mean losing control — it means opening the door for Allah’s love to touch every part of your life.

I still remember that moment on my knees.  Exhausted, burnt out, out of answers.

I had done everything I was supposed to do: worked hard, pushed through, stayed strong. But my body had collapsed under the weight of it all. My mind was restless. My heart ached.

I had spent my whole life relying on myself. If I didn’t do it, who would?
That belief made me capable but also drained me. I built walls so high that even Allah’s help felt far away… until that day, when I finally broke.

In that moment of surrender, I realised:
I was never meant to carry it all alone.

I softened. I let go. I allowed myself to receive  from Allah first, and then from the people I loved.
And my life began to change.

Now, I guide other Muslim women to do the same:
To release the weight they were never meant to carry.
To open and soften into divine trust and love.
To receive more joy, ease, and intimacy in their relationships and lives not by chasing from more instead to fully embrace it. 

Introducing

SACRED LOVE

A Journey of mercy, devotion, and trust

 A 10-week journey for Muslim women who are ready to stop carrying it all alone and start opening to receive more from Allah, so they can receive more in their marriage, family, and life.

This is for the woman who:

  • Wants to soften without losing her strength.

  • Wants to feel loved, appreciated, and cared for without guilt.

  • Wants her marriage to feel like a true partnership rooted in mercy.

  • Wants her children to see a mother who inspires with her presence, not with her pressure.

  • Is ready to make space for Allah’s love to fill her, so she can pour into others from a place of ease and joy.

Our 3-step journey together

  • Let Go:

    Release the control

    Decolonize your mindset

    Limited beliefs about being a women and men

    Patterns that keep you in overdrive.

  • Open & Soften:

    Understanding of the voices Within: Nafs, Shayṭān, and angels

    Learn about relationship skills to create deeper intimacy 

    Somatic practices for nervous system regulation

    Use of Divine Attributes for emotional regulation, trust building and safety.

    Feminine communication skills

    Create feminine boundaries bringing harmony instead of separation 

  • Receive More:

    Support and care from Allah first and then your relationships. 

    Graciously without guilty Support and From Allah first.

    Love and appreciation for being a women

    Acceptance of your natural essence (fitra) and a greater purpose.

EVERYTHING YOU’LL RECEIVE INSIDE:

Over 10 weeks, you’ll be guided through a blend of spiritual wisdom, islamic knowledge, somatic practices, and community support designed to help you let go, open, and receive more.

  • Weekly 90-minute live group coaching sessions.

  • Somatic & Heart-Centered Practices to calm your nervous system and reconnect with your body and spiritual heart.

  • Practical Knowledge for alignment - intimacy skills that bring magnetism, polarity, and clarity into marriage and relationships.

  • Dhikr & the Divine Names of Allah  to soothe your emotions, trust building and anchor you in Allah’s mercy and strength.

  • The AAA Method: Awareness → Acceptance → Action

  • Private Sisterhood Community for connection and support.

  • Bonus: Recorded meditations & dhikr practices you can return to anytime.

  • Spiritual remedies handouts that can help you to navigate the challenges of life.

By the end of our 10 weeks together, you will:

  • Feel deeply connected to Allah  not just in prayer, but in everyday life.

  • Trust your husband to step up without micromanaging.

  • Rest without guilt and know your worth isn’t in what you do.

  • Express your needs without fear of rejection.

  • Set boundaries with love, keeping harmony without building walls.

  • Harmony in marriage and relationships,  surrendering control and attracting love with joy.

  • Bring more ease and intimacy into your marriage.

  • Be more present with your children.

  • Release old patterns of overdrive so you can move with grace.

  • Receive love openly  from Allah first, then in your relationships.

You can keep doing it all alone. Keep carrying the weight. Keep telling yourself you “should” be able to handle it. But at what cost?

  • More exhaustion. The type no holiday can fix.

  • More distance in your marriage.

  • More guilt with your children.

  • More prayers whispered through a tired mind.

  • More years of giving to everyone else and leaving yourself last.

Or… you can choose another way.


One where
letting go doesn’t mean losing control, it means making space for Allah’s love to fill you, so you can pour into your marriage, family, and life from a place of ease.

Are you ready to walk this start this journey and transform your life? 

You were never meant to carry it all alone.
The love, support, and ease you’ve been craving are already written for you.

 You just need to make space to receive them.

This is your moment to let go of the weight, open your heart, and allow Allah’s mercy to transform your marriage, your family, and your life.

Join me inside A Sacred Path of Love: A Journey of mercy, devotion and trust and a 10 week journey to let go, open, and receive more from Allah, so you can receive more in every part of your life.

You don’t have to do more to be worthy.
You just have to be willing to receive what was always yours.

SALAAM, I’M RAJA

I’m Raja Avila, the heart behind Sacred Sisterhood Embodiment Coaching, Islamic Spiritual healing practitioner and the creator of Sacred Love.


A mother of two, stepmother of five, and devoted wife, I weave faith, femininity, and holistic healing into every part of my work.

Born in Colombia and raised in a Catholic family, I built a successful corporate career before following a lifelong pull toward the unseen. After my divorce, I turned to Allah in prayer, asking for guidance and true purpose—and He answered. Islam became my path of healing, the place where I found the peace and direction my heart had been seeking.

Through this return to my fitra, I healed the patterns that once kept me from what Allah designed for my life and relationships. In surrender I discovered that lasting love begins with trust in Him and the freedom to let go and let love in.

Today I help Muslim women—whether preparing for marriage or longing to deepen it—reconnect with their fitra, embrace joy and softness, and build relationships rooted in mercy and divine design through prophetic wisdom, somatic practices, and the healing power of Allah’s Names.

✓ You’ve been stuck in hustle mode for too long.

✓ You long for deeper intimacy with your husband.

✓ You want your children to see a mother who leads with presence, not pressure.

✓ You crave softness and to slow down but don't know where to start.

✓ You’re ready to set boundaries without guilt.

✓ You want to bring Allah into every part of your healing.

This program is perfect for you if…

This program is not for you if…

X You want a quick fix without inner work.

X You’re not ready to reflect on and release old patterns.

X You prefer to stay in blame instead of taking responsibility.

X You don’t want to bring faith into your growth.

Answer the Call to Sacred Love!

Sister, whether you’re preparing for marriage or already in one, Allah created you for a love filled with sakīnah—tranquility, mercy, and trust.

You don’t have to carry it all or prove your worth.
You only need to return to the One who wrote your story.

Sacred Love is your invitation to let go of control, soften perfectionism, and open your heart to the companionship Allah has destined for you.

Doors close soon. Don’t let another season slip by in quiet longing.

If your heart is whispering yes, it’s time to let go—and let love in.

FAQs

  • No. Sacred Love is for both single and married women — perfect for preparing your heart and learning the principles of a thriving, God-centered marriage.

  • No. While many women in this program are mothers, the transformation is for any high-achieving Muslim woman ready to let go, open, and receive more.


  • The date will be announced after registration closes. We’ll choose from the options in the application form to match the time that works best for most participants.

  • Recording will be available for you in our portal. 

  • I hear there are so many responsibilities we are juggling, however working by yourself will have a ripple effect on every person in your family, you would be able to show up as the women you were meant to be by Allah, the woman in a household is the first that contains  and inspires their homes.

  • There’s no such thing here. You come as you are – tired, unsure, in your Pjs even if you have a baby hanging off you.

  • Yes,  because the change starts with you. As you open to receive more from Allah, your energy and presence will naturally ripple into your marriage and family life. 


  • “Before Sacred Sisterhood, my days were nonstop, my meditation was inconsistent, and I struggled to slow down. I worried I wouldn’t be able to fully be myself, but the peace I felt from Raja drew me in. Through this circle, I’ve deepened my connection with Allah, strengthened my relationships, and finally learned to breathe, pause, and trust. One word to describe this experience is tawakkul, a sanctuary of peace, remembrance, and sisterhood. I carry with me the practices we learned—breathing with presence, burning away limiting beliefs, dhikr of Allah’s names. This isn’t just a circle; it’s a return to Allah in a way I had never known before. I wholeheartedly recommend Sacred Sisterhood. It's life-changing."

    — Sudduf Wyne

  • "Joining this sisterhood has truly transformed my life. I now see life's challenges not as burdens, but as gifts and opportunities to build resilience, deepen my connection with Allah, and emerge stronger than ever. My entire perspective has shifted: fear and anxiety have faded away, replaced by empowering faith and hope. Through the practical exercises and uplifting weekly sessions, I learned to trust that with Allah’s guidance, anything is possible. This journey also blessed me with beautiful, supportive relationships with like-minded sisters who inspire me every day. If you are ready to reach your fullest potential and experience real, lasting transformation, I wholeheartedly urge you to join. You’ll be amazed at how much you can grow into the best version of yourself."

    — Fatima Siddiqa Mohamedali

  • “I feel like this venture has helped me touch base in myself and reinforce the steps I need to take to be the best version of myself. I am prone to overthinking and not necessarily expressing my feelings so this helped me focus more on my heart, articulate my emotions and dig deeper. I love the fact that it's non-judgemental and our space is protected to verbalize what we're going through as well as to listen to others without interruption. It helps ground and balance. I also loved that we could take time to be with our dhikr, rather than rush through it. The friendships, exchanges and buddy system is priceless, enabling those heart-to-heart interactions that we may not necessarily get elsewhere. A huge thank you to all involved for helping us rise to another level!”

    — Rumeana Jahangir